JOURNEY TO THE ALTAR

JOURNEY TO THE ALTAR
Finding the "P"

Purpose; the reason for the existence of something.
A lot of people make the mistake of thinking their relationships can thrive only on the fuel of love, but that's (confidently from experience) not true.

You won't always wake up in love and that's a fact. So the question is,does it end when you don't feel your heart beat faster anymore, or when you don't 'uneccessarily' miss that person as often like you used to in the early stages of your relationship?

No, it doesn't. I personally believe, apart from what I have come to know from the bible,that everything has a purpose and your relationship definitely has one. Both of you didn't just come together for the fun of it. There's a reason for your coming together and you have to find it.

It is when you find it that your relationship can truly have meaning.
At that point, you don't think about yourself or the way you feel,but what you can do to help build your relationship up so you can accomplish that purpose for which you're together.

Sometimes it's just not about you or how you even feel. Its about the 'P'


Comments

  1. Dorcas osei9 April 2018 at 00:39

    True.... Niece piece

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  2. Unknown9 April 2018 at 01:42

    #Word

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  3. Unknown9 April 2018 at 03:24

    True n very informative..

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  4. Benedy Agorsor9 April 2018 at 05:36

    I agree strongly with you.its easy to deny the existence of love when you get no physical evidence.but it is something beyond the physical.it is trust tolerance compromise and understanding above all

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  5. A Poet's Muse9 April 2018 at 06:32

    It's a strong 'P' I must say.

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  6. Unknown9 April 2018 at 10:11

    Lovely piece

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  7. Unknown9 April 2018 at 10:55

    Perfectly true

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  8. LeKMA.blogspot.Teshie10 April 2018 at 00:54

    Love only cannot make a relationship work. That's what most youth look at without considering the other factors which will make a strong and perfect relationship. Thank you for throwing more light on that.

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